By Louise P King
In a recent essay in Vogue the actress, writer, and director Lena Dunham described her decision to have a hysterectomy at age 31 after a decade of unsuccessful attempts to control increasingly excruciating pain from endometriosis. The decision was difficult because it meant that she would never be able to become pregnant, something she had long dreamed of, but also because her health care providers did not take her pain seriously.
As a gynecologist who specializes in surgery for women in pain, I would like to say I am shocked to hear of her experience. Unfortunately, I’m not.
I am frequently the fourth, fifth, sixth, etc. surgeon a woman in pain has approached for help. Over the course of her life she’s been told that the excruciating pain she experiences during menses is “normal” or even “expected.” She’s been ignored or stigmatized during multiple emergency room visits, feeling the side glances and hearing the mutterings behind drapes that perhaps she is “drug seeking.” She’s sat through multiple visits and exams with physicians who have told her that imaging shows “nothing,” she needs to “get used to it” or find a way to “take her mind off it.” It’s only “once a month.” These women are prisoners of their reproductive organs. At least two weeks or more of any given month is spent in pain. Half their lives, every year.
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Image: By David Shankbone – Own work, CC BY 3.0, https://commons.wikimedia.org/w/index.php?curid=19231884
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