There is a chance that you will receive a holiday card this year from someone who lost a baby right before or right after birth. Someone like me.
When someone who lost a baby puts together a holiday card, the family photo, if we are brave enough to include one, is never quite right because it is missing someone. The updates we write about our lives are always incomplete because there is an untold story. We are perpetual hosts to a spirit that not even Dickens imagined, the Ghost of a Christmas That Can Never Be.
In the United States there were over 23,000 stillbirths in 2013 and another 12,900 babies who died in their first week of life, according to a Centers for Disease Control report. Together these losses are known medically as perinatal deaths, and worldwide there are 4.1 million each year. At age 36, I joined this saddest sorority of mothers who gave birth but have no baby. Since then, tens of millions around the world have joined me.
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